Monday, September 22, 2008

FET... the deets!

In case you don't want to read the whole post, here's a short summary. Transfer went well, both embryos survived thaw and were growing. We transferred both embryos, who both happen to be BOYS. I'm fine and back at the hotel on bed rest.

Now for the details, all the nitty gritty details...

We got there at 9:30am-- transfer scheduled for 11:30. But first I had to do a blood draw to check today's P4 (progesterone) and E2 (estrodiol) levels. My meds might be tweaked depending on these results. The 1st nurse couldn't get a vein at all. So she called someone else in. She got one on the first try, but then it stopped so she had to switch to the other arm and do it again to get enough blood to run both of the tests. That was Fun.

Then I was told to head up to the 2nd floor surgery area to wait for the acu. About 5 min later someone came out to take me back to my room. Everything happens in the same room for transfers. They just wheel in and out the different equipment.
First the acu lady came in, I signed paperwork and had to write a check for the acu (as with their lab, the acu people are a separate business entity). I have no idea how long the acu lasted, really. It was dark, I was probably asleep and I couldn't see a clock because I didn't have my glasses on. Maybe an hour? No idea.

I was relatively relaxed at this point (well, it's all relative, isn't it?), and I HAD TO PEE. Round two nurses come in, wheel in a u/s cart, and another cart w/ equipment on it. Amazingly, she didn't get out the dildocam. I got a regular abdomen u/s! Who knew that existed?! She had to check how full my bladder was. When I asked why (since this was never an issue or anything with my last TWO transfers) she said it helped to flatten the uterus and allowed them to more accurately place the embryos. Ok, that makes sense. She also let me 'empty my bladder' a little bit. OH, what a lovely pee... So, back to the table, I mean bed. One of the nurses came in to give me a Valium. I asked what it was for, since I was relaxed already. She said it was to relax your muscles, esp the uterine muscles. We had to wait a little bit for Dr Surrey to come in, he did some 'cleaning' down there and set up whatever he had to set up. Then the embryologist came in (Terry), and we had to confirm who we were, etc. He rolled the embryos in on a cart that was topped with a 20" monitor where we could see them. I asked if we could have a picture of them and he said they didn't do pictures. I was not to be deterred. I wanted pictures. This is the last hurrah and dammit, I want pictures. So I asked if D could take a pic of the monitor. I think they thought that was the weirdest request ever. But hey, I got my photo.
our boys!

Transfer itself took maybe 10 minutes if that. Then I had to lay there for another 10 minutes. Then the acupuncture lady came back in (she was *very* chipper) for round 2 of the acu treatment. Now I should mention that I *still* had to pee but had to lay there for more acu for maybe 15 min or so. I'm sorry, but it's just not so relaxing to have to lay completely still on a table with needles all over you when you have to pee. Kind of makes it difficult to do the peepee dance! Once the acu was done, I was up and beelined it to the bathroom faster than you could blink an eye!

Random aside, they have lovely tile in their bathrooms there. Each bathroom is different, all tasteful and lovely. Anywho, I got dressed, was handed various copies of paperwork, and a nurse wheeled me out (they insist on pushing patients out in wheelchairs) to the parking lot. D had pulled the car around and was waiting. They said to put the seat all the way back in the car and lay down immediately when I got back to the hotel. I thought that was strange. I mean really, like they're going to fall out or something? I don't think so. But hey. Their success rates are what they are for a reason so who was I to challenge that?

We stopped at Heidi's for takeout for lunch. I think just to spite me, D got lox. He said it was good. It looked like puked up watermelon or something equally unpleasant. lol. Since then I've been in bed back at the hotel. I have a whole new appreciation for people who have to be on bed rest for an extended period of time. UGH. I killed a bunch of time this afternoon by accidentally falling asleep for a lovely nap. I think it might have been the Valium. I also slept like crap last night, so I really was quite tired. Let's hope I can sleep tonight!

11 comments:

Kathleen said...

sounds like everything went well - I'm glad to hear it! Enjoy your rest - we'll be thinking about you and your Boys!!

Lifeslurper said...

Congratulations on your transfer! Wow Valium and a wheelchair! My these clinics vary their methods, don't they! Best wishes for the 2ww!

Heather.PNR said...

How crazy to already know their gender! Amazing stuff. Fingers crossed for a positive outcome.

retro girl said...

Best of luck to you! I love the picture - the Boys are beautiful. My husband and I did the same thing at our transfer at CCRM - I had him take a picture of the screen. Yes, they thought we were a bit crazy, but hell, we did pay $20,000+...we deserved a picture and so did you guys!

May the 2ww be speedy...

Cindy said...

Oh wow, so exciting! I'm so glad to hear that your BOYS are doing well!

Amy said...

Congratulations!

g said...

so happy everything went well!! reat up and let your boys snuggle in for a nice long winter!!! ;) i am so excited for you!!! i cant wait to hear that good news in a couple of weeks!!

BTW whats the weather like.. i am starting to pack! :) has it cooled down at all?
thanks :)

Cara said...

Wow! I have never been through anything like that! Your description is very cool. I HOPE HOPE HOPE that the next eight days are managable for you!

PS - Um...this might be obvious to some, but how to you know they are boys?

ICLW

SandJF said...

Congrats on the successful transfer! Glad you got a picture of the boys! J and I are crossing our fingers for you :)

Aunt Becky said...

Sounds just wonderful! I'm here from ICLW and what a lovely surprise it is to read about your and your embies! I'll be back to check in and until then, I'm sending all the sticky embie vibes I can.

Shannon said...

Hey there,

It's Shannon from Resolve. I read your post and D and I are crossing everything for you guys! It's amazing that you can find out already that they are boys. Good luck and we will be pulling for great news!